{"id":5298,"date":"2021-09-15T18:24:02","date_gmt":"2021-09-15T18:24:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/coaching-walkandtalk.com\/?p=5298"},"modified":"2022-01-27T14:26:35","modified_gmt":"2022-01-27T13:26:35","slug":"gestion-des-relations","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/coaching-walkandtalk.com\/en\/gestion-des-relations\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><section class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid liquid-row-shadowbox-69e8f33c6ed6a\"><div class=\"ld-container container\"><div class=\"row ld-row\"><div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12 liquid-column-69e8f33c6f083\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"   ><div class=\"wpb_wrapper-inner\"><style>.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f1c6 h2{color:#208d42;}.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f1c6 .lqd-highlight-inner{height:0.275em;bottom:0px;}<\/style><div class=\"ld-fancy-heading text-center ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f1c6\">\n\t<h2 class=\"lqd-highlight-underline lqd-highlight-grow-left\" ><span class=\"ld-fh-txt\"> Why is it so difficult to be in a relationship?<\/span><\/h2><\/div><style>.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f3d1 p{color:rgb(0, 0, 0);}.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f3d1 .lqd-highlight-inner{height:0.275em;bottom:0px;}<\/style><div class=\"ld-fancy-heading ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f3d1\">\n\t<p class=\"lqd-highlight-underline lqd-highlight-grow-left\" ><span class=\"ld-fh-txt\"> Why all the unnecessary conflict and repetitive misunderstandings? Why do we have this constant frustration from being misunderstood, being misheard, like no body\u2019s really listening or taking us into consideration?<br \/>\nI\u2019ve been there.<\/span><\/p><\/div><style>.ld_spacer_69e8f33c6f4aa{height:32px;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"ld-empty-space ld_spacer_69e8f33c6f4aa\"><span class=\"liquid_empty_space_inner\"><\/span><\/div><style>.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f583 h2{color:#208d42;}.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f583 .lqd-highlight-inner{height:0.275em;bottom:0px;}<\/style><div class=\"ld-fancy-heading text-center ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f583\">\n\t<h2 class=\"lqd-highlight-underline lqd-highlight-grow-left\" ><span class=\"ld-fh-txt\"> \u2018We only have one life; we might as well make the most of it\u2019<\/span><\/h2><\/div><style>.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f675 p{color:rgb(0, 0, 0);}.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f675 .lqd-highlight-inner{height:0.275em;bottom:0px;}<\/style><div class=\"ld-fancy-heading text-center ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f675\">\n\t<p class=\"lqd-highlight-underline lqd-highlight-grow-left\" ><span class=\"ld-fh-txt\"> <\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Susanna Persson<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><\/span><\/p><\/div><style>.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f791 p{color:rgb(0, 0, 0);}.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f791 .lqd-highlight-inner{height:0.275em;bottom:0px;}<\/style><div class=\"ld-fancy-heading ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f791\">\n\t<p class=\"lqd-highlight-underline lqd-highlight-grow-left\" ><span class=\"ld-fh-txt\"> In N.L.P.  we say, \u2018the map is not the territory\u2019, what does this mean exactly?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>This analogy intends to show us that the map is the internal representation that each person has of the world and the territory is the world as it really is.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Each person being unique, he has his own view of the world (or map of the world) and the latter is different from one person to another. There is only one territory but countless maps: the map is not the territory. We are indeed unique human beings each carrying our own baggage.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Since birth most of us have received an education (without forgetting those of us that haven\u2019t), some have had parents instilling their values into them, we\u2019ve been through challenging times, had experiences and felt emotions that have shaped us into who we are today with our own set of beliefs and values. Depending on those experiences, we have learnt to put behavioural mechanisms and coping strategies in place.<\/span><\/p><\/div><style>.ld_spacer_69e8f33c6f883{height:32px;}<\/style>\n<div class=\"ld-empty-space ld_spacer_69e8f33c6f883\"><span class=\"liquid_empty_space_inner\"><\/span><\/div><style>.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f92b p{color:rgb(0, 0, 0);}.ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f92b .lqd-highlight-inner{height:0.275em;bottom:0px;}<\/style><div class=\"ld-fancy-heading ld_fancy_heading_69e8f33c6f92b\">\n\t<p class=\"lqd-highlight-underline lqd-highlight-grow-left\" ><span class=\"ld-fh-txt\"> For example, a father might well say to his child: \u2018if you work hard at school you\u2019ll get good marks, be able to go off to University, get a great job and you will succeed in life\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Another example, a different father might say: \u2018it doesn\u2019t matter what you choose to do in life, the most important thing is your happiness\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One could argue the vast difference in these examples is purely based on each fathers\u2019 different values and beliefs, which are direct consequences of their education, history and contrasting life experiences. We can now easily see how complicated relationships can be and how barriers in understanding each other can form.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Trying to tell someone the way they think and what they say is wrong or bad often doesn\u2019t get us anywhere, usually it\u2019s quite the opposite, it just creates conflict. The other person in the argument will of course defend their position because they\u2019re just advocating for the values and beliefs they\u2019ve always lived by.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>What is crucial here is to each explain to the other what they feel is important, so that their values and beliefs can be respected.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, it\u2019s easier said than done, especially when emotions are flying high!<\/p>\n<p>I would recommend you think about this from time to time and remember that we haven\u2019t all had the same experiences in life and therefore do not all share the same values and beliefs.<\/p>\n<p>This will help you to understand each other better and could avoid unnecessary conflicts with harmful consequences.<\/p>\n<p>Try and understand another person\u2019s differences, just as you would like them to accept and understand yours.<\/p>\n<p>Give it a go! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain!<\/span><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Pourquoi est-il si difficile de vivre une relation avec l'autre ? 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